Dating selfish woman
What are you avoiding doing by being addicted to love?
How can you turn your loving energy into something hat gives back to you?
Returning from a long thoughtful drive, I found these comments helpful.
I agree not to try to super analyse anyone else but I would like to know what you mean by the phrase "self connected" as that has not been explained by you and yet is the crux of your analysis.
Talking it out in the usual way is not an option…at least, it takes a long time to draw someone out of this.
With this strong feeling of having to cover up all the time, they hold onto their love very tightly because giving it up makes them feel as though they are sliding on ice.
Also, for selfish lovers, love feels like a scarce resource.
When selfish lovers give up a little love, they start to worry that the little that they are connected with will all be gone.
This is because selfish lovers are often not self connected and even when they are deeply intelligent, the one faculty that has remained undeveloped is the faculty of being self-connected.